Optimism and skepticism

It’s been never ending war in our own selves throughout our journey of life. Sometime, we stick to one side and after moments, we may jump to other side, but as our experience of life increase this continues battle never shows sign of ending with win of one side. I personally believe it’s nearly impossible for someone to be at one side and keep their views fixed on either one of them for forever. Maybe there are some people who maintained skepticism or optimism for their life time, but it’s hard to believe they never changed side even facing worst and best parts of their lives. It’s said by scholars that we must maintain neutral emotional state while facing times which make us question our very own beliefs. I have faced such situation many times than I can count and tell you. But for person who have versatile state of emotion like me, its hardest to stay at one side. Optimism is believing in something’s good is on its way and sooner or later everything problematic in our life going to be normal and we will be happy for rest of our life. It’s actually appealing too that we must think positive in all times, but who am I to talk? when simple things like getting something spilled on or even being bumped into something also can turn beliefs from good and optimistic to skeptic. I always first approach every situation with positive attitude, but as time goes by my mind starts to cloud, and I began to question my judgment for no apparent reason, and before I know it am all negative person again. some times it works also vice verse. From bad and sad attitude to good in minutes. And I wish nothing more than being able to control this constant changing attitude to permanently maintained positive attitude. It’s hard, but its benefits are what we all need while facing hard times. It only takes a good coffee, simple smile, even simply just a basic compliment can change our mood into positive and happy, and in turns it benefits us more than we asked. Similarly it only takes a bad coffee, traffic, even just a weird angry look from stranger can sometime turn our attitude into angry and sad. Few months earlier came across a book and a short video based on that book named ‘Secret’ which show cased very own phenomenon am talking about and how it can completely change our life and turn it into worst or best depending upon sides we choose in optimism or skepticism. Both book and video showcased various interviews and incidents as reference to prove "Theory of attraction" and how we can use it to our benefits. While watching that video I was deeply convinced why everything in my life is going exactly wrong way than how it should be is because of my attitude, and how am so negative and skeptic from inside. So, I decided to try this theory and teaching of secret for myself in both good and bad way. Trust me fellows what am about to tell you is nothing but the true fact. So, in order to test secret I began to think about myself as a sick person sick with heavy decease and to my surprise after weeks I got hospitalized. Obviously, reason for my sickness could be anything, but I took it as positive result for negative effects of greatest force on earth which is law of attraction. Now, to try out positive effects of same force I tried it to get many things which were pending on my things I want list, and to my surprise I got many of those much faster than I imagined. This both results were pretty dramatic for me, and it proved at least myself of power of Secret. And how if used wrongly it could give devastating result,  but if used for good you can get whatever you want. Literally, whatever you want for yourself. So, deep down in my head I know now which side I want to be, and once in for all I want to end this never ending battle inside me and choose optimism, and stay optimistic for rest of my life. Our faith is tested when we are most challenged. I know it’s going to be hard and tough to maintain that view for rest of my life, but if I kept it for long enough all problems from my life are going to disappear forever. So, today's my actual agenda of writing this post was to convince my own self and to some of readers of this post to be positive, which I completed at least convincing myself part. And for others it’s never too late to give up your worries and embrace faith as last resort than embracing pointless worrying and sadness for what happened in past after all if we don’t keep a faith even god also can't help us. God have given us an ultimate weapon which can strike down any problem we face in our life and throughout history with help of this weapon mankind have created wonders, and conquered every fearsome battles our fate thrown us into, and that weapon is 'Hope'. Hope is the chain which bound us to our faith in good and humanity, and it’s said in ancient times that people bound by hope keep walking towards their goals no matter what and eventually reach their destination and achieve their goals, and people abandon hope rot and suffer blaming their fate and destiny. So, let all of us come together, and let’s hope for best for us, our family, our neighbors, and every other person on this planet. It’s always a wise and accurate choice to choose good and happiness for ourselves because that’s what god have created us for. Being happy as much as we can is the reason why we are alive. And make happy as much as people we can. Give love and get love is the ultimate reason for our existence on this planet.